Who Is Erik Menendez?

On August 20, 1989, Erik Menendez and his older brother, Lyle, shot and killed their parents, Jose and Kitty, at their home in Beverly Hills. During their highly publicized trial, which began in 1993, the brothers claimed they acted in self-defense after years of physical and sexual abuse. They were both convicted of first-degree murder and sentenced to life in prison without parole in 1996.

Early Life

Erik Galen Menendez was born on November 27, 1970, in Blackwood, New Jersey, the younger son of Jose and Mary "Kitty" Menendez. Jose, a Cuban immigrant, had made himself into a successful entertainment executive, and he exerted tremendous pressure on his boys to succeed as well.

Shy and quiet, Erik grew up emulating his older brother, Lyle. After the family moved to Southern California in 1986, the boys fell in with more of a troublemaking crowd, and Erik was twice nabbed for burglary in 1988. He also took an interest in screenwriting, ominously creating a script about a son who murders his wealthy parents.

Murder of Parents Jose and Kitty Menendez

On August 20, 1989, Jose and Kitty were shot and killed at home, an act that shocked neighbors in their ritzy Beverly Hills neighborhood. Police didn't give much thought to extensively questioning Erik and Lyle that night, but the boys soon raised eyebrows by taking advantage of their newfound access to the family riches, with Erik hiring a personal coach to help with a burgeoning tennis career.

However, Erik was also becoming burdened with guilt, and in late October he confessed the crimes to his therapist, L. Jerome Oziel. Upon learning of this, Lyle reportedly grew angry and threatened to kill Dr. Oziel if he told anyone else. However, the therapist confided in his girlfriend, who in turn tipped off the police.

The brothers were arrested within days of each other in March 1990, and in late December 1992 they were indicted for first-degree murder. Dr. Oziel's tapes became a subject of legal jousting over the issue of doctor-patient privilege violation, but eventually some of the tapes were admitted as evidence.

Trials and Conviction

In July 1993, the trial for Erik and Lyle began, with separate juries designated for each defendant. With the proceedings televised, a curious public witnessed the brothers testify that they had been subjected to years of verbal, physical and sexual abuse. Erik added that he believed his father would have killed them to prevent their secret from being revealed.

In January 1994, a mistrial was declared when the juries were unable to decide on whether to convict for manslaughter or murder. A second trial began the following year, this time with just one jury and no cameras present. The brothers were convicted of first-degree murder in March 1996 and later sentenced to consecutive life terms without the possibility of parole.

Prison Life

Sent to California's Folsom State Prison (and later transferred downstate to Pleasant Valley State Prison), Erik spent years seeking a new trial after his 1996 conviction. He and his brother Lyle fought their way through the California courts, but they were denied at every turn. In 2005, the case reached a federal appeals court, which refused to grant the Menendez brothers a new trial.

Marriage to Tammi Saccoman Menendez

Erik married pen pal Tammi Ruth Saccoman in 1999, and in 2005 she published They Said We'd Never Make It: My Life with Erik Menendez. During an interview to promote the book, Erik expressed remorse over his parents' murders, referring to his awareness of the crimes as "my real prison." He also grew more devoutly religious and led prayer groups, according to a 2005 People magazine article. He told People's reporter, "People view me as this dark guy, a killer. It's been a struggle for me to realize I'm the nation's villain. I'm really not. I'm a good person."

Documentaries and Other TV Projects

'Truth and Lies: The Menendez Brothers — American Sons, American Murderers'

In 2017 prior to the airing of the news special Truth and Lies: The Menendez Brothers — American Sons, American Murderers, Lyle told an interviewer that he still regularly corresponded with his brother, and that Erik was working with terminally ill and physically challenged inmates.

'Law & Order: True Crime: The Menendez Murders'

That June, their twisted family story was the subject of the Lifetime movie Menendez: Blood Brothers, starring Courtney Love as Kitty, and a few months later, acclaimed actress Edie Falco headlined the new series Law & Order: True Crime: The Menendez Murders.

'The Menendez Murders: Erik Tells All'

In October 2017, A&E interviewed Dr. Stuart Hart, an expert defense witness for the Menendez brothers during their trials, for its Real Crime Blog. On November 30, the network aired the first extensive interview with Erik Menedez in years, as part of its limited series The Menendez Murders: Erik Tells All.

Brothers Reunited

In February 2018, Lyle transferred from Mule Creek State Prison in Northern California to R.J. Donovan Correctional Facility in San Diego, where his brother was incarcerated. In April, Erik found himself in the same housing unit as his brother, where they would get to interact for the first time in more than 20 years by participating in educational and other rehabilitation programs together.

Upon see each other for the first time in more than 20 years, the brothers "burst into tears immediately," journalist Robert Rand, who is intimately familiar with their case, told ABC News. "They just hugged each other for a few minutes without saying any words to each other. Then the prison officials let them spend an hour together in a room."

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  • Birth Year: 1970
  • Birth date: November 27, 1970
  • Birth State: New Jersey
  • Birth City: Blackwood
  • Birth Country: United States
  • Gender: Male
  • Best Known For: Erik Menendez and his older brother, Lyle, were sentenced to double life terms in prison for the 1989 murder of their parents.
  • Industries
    • Crime and Terrorism
  • Astrological Sign: Sagittarius

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  • Last Updated: November 2, 2021
  • Original Published Date: April 2, 2014


  • People view me as this dark guy, a killer. It's been a struggle for me to realize I'm the nation's villain. I'm really not. I'm a good person.
  • I'm not saying what I did was right or justifiable. I needed to go to prison. But place another child in my life and see what happens. I felt it was either my life or my parents' life. It's as if there was kerosene all over the floor that a match could light at any time. And my soul was burnt to death.